Ok this is going to be really long.
I’m 15, but I’m a really mature 15 year old.
I have a boyfriend who is 17.
We have been going out for nearly 4 months.
And I think I’m ready to have sex with him, but there’s a part of me that just doesn’t want to do it.
I don’t know what to do , I want to do it but I can’t bring myself to do it .
Its like half of me is disagreeing with my other half.
I’ve talked to him about it and he said its all up to me when I feel like I’m ready.
Can anyone help?
maybe you should wait a little longer just to see how you really feel.
You could be in two halves of what to do because you anxious about losing your virginity! Believe me its not that big a deal!
Your man sounds wonderful though, very supportive and seems very mature about the whole sex thing. you are a very lucky girl!
when you are ready, remember to use a condom! 
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Save that for marriage.
STD’s are too much to deal with and even with a condom, they sneak up the little buggers.
Plus what’s the big deal of losing your virginity? The only reason everybody says you have to lose it is because the tv tells them to.
Plus if you save it, it shows that you really love him, because you didn’t have to get naked to show your love and you respect him for what he is (and him right back).
You’re 15, don’t worry about that stuff. The only reason 15 year old girls have sex is because they think they’re “mature” and “grown up” when really they’re a bunch of dumb whores.
Save it. You won’t regret it.
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Consider yourself ready when you are ready to discuss birth control methods with your doctor. I know that sounds crazy, but its a test of your maturity. There is no prize for getting there earlier and your guy sounds very nice and patient as he should be. There are other things or methods the two of you could explore while waiting if you felt there was some urgency or need. Consider your emotions, they seem split now, consider the possible legal issues as you are not yet at the legal “age of consent”, meaning he would be prosecuted for rape (whether doing sex or other things).
Be patient, wait and talk.
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Sex is a great and wonderful thing. Sadly it has been cheapened by toady’s society and media.
Even though emotions are a great part of sexual relations, try and take a step back and be analytical about it.
Evaluate what matters to you about Sex. Make a list of all the reasons you would and wouldn’t want to have sex right now.
And as a personal note, sex should a a special thing and not cheap. Once you’ve started the next time is always easier.
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For a start I thought you said you were a mature 15 year old? well if you are that mature you will know that it is illegal for you to have sex at that age, and your boyfriend could be in serious trouble….also if you insist on this, and you are unsure, then say no..its sounds like your boyfriend knows you are under age and he doesn’t want to end up in trouble…if you think anything of him you will wait till after you are 16.
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Sounds like you’ve got a good one if he’s leaving the timing up to you! But it doesn’t mean you have a sleep with him like it’s doing him a big favour. If part of you is hesitant that is your conscience or inner voice speaking to you. Listen to it-it knows and feels alot. You are really young to be having sex with a 17 year old. Is it legal where you live? Four months does not make a loving, trusting relationship and you need to be in one when you’re having sex. You will be happy if you wait. Trust me
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The answer is simple. The law say you are too you to be having sex. Your boyfriend is of age. If you do have sex and your parents find out. They could press charges of rape on him and if convicted he would go to prison for a long time and after release he would have to regester as a sex offender for the rest of his life. Now the Question is sex now worth that chance? There is also a chance of you getting pregnant even if protection is used there is no 100% guarantee that you won’t. I hope this help you make up your mind the right way as too what you should or should not do.
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When in doubt - don’t. I know that sounds simple but I’ve always found it to be true.l If you really were ready you wouldn’t have any doubts. Listen to your intuition, it’s telling you to wait. He doesn’t seem to be putting any pressure on you so why try and make yourself do something you really are not sure about?
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DONT DO THIS. once you open that box, things change.
DONT.
save yourself for marriage. GOD gave you a precious gift that you can only GIVE ONCE and cant take it back.
15 IS TO YOUNG to have sex and you’ve only been dating him 4 months.
I really hope you donot take this step til you are alot older or married